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Photo by Ninian Reid

An open letter to the people at the party where I was molested in plain sight

How could you ruin this man’s life?

The assault and the next 24 hours

Getting the word out

The aftermath

Why we blame victims

They do not like it when their memory of a woman enjoying herself at a club transforms into that of a woman being abused as they stood by.

Because the lines are blurry, we can imagine the events in the way that suits us best.

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New Yorker living in Berlin. I overshare stories about sex positivity, love, and non-monogamy. Get more details on my monogamish life 👉 https://bit.ly/2I81N62

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