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My infatuation started almost immediately. And so did my refusal to take it seriously.

It seemed too obvious that I would fall for him. Objectively attractive. In a position of authority. Listens attentively as I talk about my innermost world.

I wouldn’t even have had to have met him to…

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The man who first explained non-monogamy to me described it as a progression.

“First people get into swinging, wife-swapping and all that, basically having casual sex outside of their relationships. Then, after some time, they eventually go to polyamory: having relationships with multiple people.”

The impression I got was that…

Sarah Stroh

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