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I Asked 3 Men Why They Didn’t Go Down on Me

And I think I made the world a better place — Josh was the first man I ever dated who was passionate about putting his mouth on my vagina. He was also the first boyfriend with whom I regularly orgasmed. And it wasn’t a coincidence. For a while, oral sex was the only way I could get off with a man…

Sex

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I Asked 3 Men Why They Didn’t Go Down on Me
I Asked 3 Men Why They Didn’t Go Down on Me
Sex

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The Virago

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Why You Should Dare To Go Topless in All the Places Men Do

Take your top off and finally be as comfortable as he is. — I was at a public beach far out in Brooklyn with a guy I was seeing and some of his friends when four breasts came out. Two of his female friends took off their tops and ran into the water with only a bikini bottom on. As soon as they…

Women

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Why You Should Dare To Go Topless in All the Places Men Do
Why You Should Dare To Go Topless in All the Places Men Do
Women

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Monogamish

·7 hours ago

If you want to date others, you must be compensating for something…

A common misconception about non-monogamous people — A friend the other day told me about a conversation she’d recently had about non-monogamy with a hometown friend. Her friend was convinced: If you’re in a relationship and “feel the need” to simultaneously date other people, you must be compensating for something. In other words, if you’re dating others…

Polyamory

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If you want to date others, you must be compensating for something…
If you want to date others, you must be compensating for something…
Polyamory

5 min read


Published in

Monogamish

·1 day ago

How to feel joy when your partner’s on a date with someone else

TOMORROW — This Tues, September 26, I’m hosting a webinar: How to find joy when your partner’s on a date with someone else It’s live interview and workshop with compersion researcher Dr. Marie Thouin and myself. On the call, we’re going to cover the most important info we know about compersion: finding…

Polyamory

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How to feel joy when your partner’s on a date with someone else
How to feel joy when your partner’s on a date with someone else
Polyamory

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Published in

Monogamish

·Sep 18

How to be someone’s “secondary” partner

And how to have one too — The person I’ve been seeing regularly (other than my partner), Chris, and I were on a date the other day. And it was going really well; we cooked, cuddled, and listened to music in each other’s arms. But later that evening, when he realized his partner might come home soon…

Polyamory

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How to be someone’s “secondary” partner
How to be someone’s “secondary” partner
Polyamory

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Monogamish

·Sep 12

Sexually exclusive and non-monogamous

Can we expand our definition of non-monogamy? — I was at dinner the other day with a friend and two of his friends, Clara and Fred, a couple who were visiting from Australia. Over Korean noodles, Fred mentioned he liked my content on Instagram, so we started talking about non-monogamy. Eventually, I asked the couple: Are you monogamous? …

Polyamory

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Sexually exclusive and non-monogamous
Sexually exclusive and non-monogamous
Polyamory

5 min read


Published in

Monogamish

·Sep 5

The agony of being limited by your partner (in non-monogamy)

The pivot partner’s dilemma — Couples in non-monogamous relationships face a common conflict: balancing one partner’s need for freedom or variety with another partner’s need for safety and security. One person, maybe the more extroverted of the two, is out and about trying to get dates and “act” on their non-monogamy. …

Polyamory

5 min read

The agony of being limited by your partner (in non-monogamy)
The agony of being limited by your partner (in non-monogamy)
Polyamory

5 min read


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Monogamish

·Aug 28

How I deal with anxiety in dating

Hurt me, I dare you — Recently, I went on a few dates with someone new. There’s a thick attraction between us that I haven’t felt in a while. And goddamn, it’s so good. But it’s also so damn uncomfortable. In this early stage, it’s hard not to take every small sign as something more important…

Dating

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How I deal with anxiety in dating
How I deal with anxiety in dating
Dating

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Monogamish

·Aug 24

Apparently, there are 2 types of compersion

You could have been feeling one of them all along. — In a recent HuffLife article (for which I was interviewed — yay!) about compersion, I learned something new. According to compersion researcher Marie Thouin, also interviewed for the article by Kelly Borrenson, there are two types of compersion: embodied compersion and attitudinal compersion. Thouin says embodied compersion is when “you…

Polyamory

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Apparantly, there are 2 types of compersion
Apparantly, there are 2 types of compersion
Polyamory

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Aug 15

If You Fear Attractive Men, Summon the Elephant

Stable, steady, and loving One thing I’ve noticed about myself over the last few years is that I’m afraid of attractive men. No, not afraid to approach them. No, not afraid to flirt. No, not afraid to make the first move. I’m afraid of the power they have over me. …

Dating

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If You Fear Attractive Men, Summon the Elephant
If You Fear Attractive Men, Summon the Elephant
Dating

5 min read

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